This question is for persons in the military or pro Americans only?

I have always been very Proud to be an American every since I was a child I will be 30 next week but anyway I am buying a house and the 1st thing I am doing is putting up a flag pole. My question is that I want to put the flag at half staff as well as the POW Flag cause my feeling is the many many men and women who have died for this country should be honered and remembered everyday not just a few selexct days a year. Would it be wrong to do it that way? also would it be wrong to put the POW Flag under the American flag or should the POW Flag be flown seperatly? I wish I could had joined the military after I turned 18 but I cannot use my right hand from being born with brain damage. I also am going to light the flag pole with RED White and Blue Lights shining on old Glory.